Why look past mem0
mem0 is infrastructure. An SDK and API extract facts from your agent's conversations, store them, and retrieve them next session. When you are shipping an application that needs memory, that is the right shape. The friction shows up elsewhere. The LLM extraction stage sits between what was said and what gets saved, and it decides what your words meant before storing them. In a public 32-day production audit, a team found roughly 98 percent of about 10,000 stored entries were low-signal, with only a few dozen worth keeping. And if you are not building an app at all, you are running a memory backend just to give your assistant context.
So the first question is not "which memory layer." It is "who is the author here." Your code, or you.
If the author is you, you want a knowledge base
Hjarni is built for the second answer. You write notes in plain Markdown, organized in folders with tags and wiki-links. The MCP server is built in and hosted, so ChatGPT, Claude, and any other MCP client read and write the same notes with nothing to deploy. There is no extraction pipeline: what you wrote is what gets stored, and every AI edit is a version you can read and revert. You can import existing Markdown to start, and export everything back out whenever you want.
mem0 remembers what your agents extracted. Hjarni remembers what you decided to write down.
What to look for
Weigh four things. Who writes the content: your code or a person. What is actually stored: the text as written, or whatever an extractor kept. Where the MCP server runs: hosted with OAuth so remote clients like ChatGPT reach it, or local to one machine. And whether you need to self-host. The agent platforms win on programmatic writes and self-hosting. A hosted knowledge base wins on authorship, readable storage, and reach.
When to stay on mem0
If you are building an agent or application and memory is a feature of software you ship, stay. The core is open-source under Apache-2.0, OpenMemory gives you a self-hosted MCP server, and the managed cloud has a free tier. Plenty of developers run mem0 for their product's memory and keep their own working notes in a knowledge base their assistants read.